What is rape and date rape? Get help The hotline is free, private, and available 24 hours a day. Rape is sex you donât agree to, including forcing a body part or object into your vagina, rectum (bottom), or mouth. Date rape is when you are raped by someone you know, like a boyfriend. Both are crimes. Rape is not about sex â it is an act of power by the rapist and it is always wrong. Date rape drugs, which often have no smell or taste, can be given to you without you knowing at parties or in…