“You don’t have to be everything to everyone all the time.”
Everyone knows parenting is one of the toughest jobs out there.
Reporting on perinatal mental health helped me enormously when I became a mom. But there's still so much we need to do to support new parents.
A suicide close to home convinced this mom to shift her parenting so that she prioritized mental health for her teens.
I inherited parenting fears, bad habits, negative beliefs, and reactive behavioral patterns from my past, especially from my own childhood. My emotional baggage impacted the way I interacted with my children, especially when I was tired, stressed, or triggered.
#PARENTING: While everyone else is removing dust and clutter in their homes, a mom of five wants us to embrace a different kind of spring cleaning. She's calling it a "LIFE CLEANING" and here are her tips for parents who need to do some mental health cleaning this Spring!
Several new parenting books are upending conventional wisdom by skipping the latest child-development research and focusing instead on the survival of the grown-ups.
Getting out of the house and working appears to be a healthy tonic for mothers as researchers discover being a stay-at-home mom is associated with higher bouts of depression. The finding holds true during children's infancy and pre-school years, with researchers discovering working part-time conveys special benefits. Researchers analyzed data, beginning in 1991 with interviews of 1,364 mothers shortly after their child's birth and including subsequent…
Mom guilt is real and so is burnout, so we turned to an expert on these topics - Sara Rose Whaley, parent coach and Board Certified Behavior Analyst.
Let’s face it: Most moms try their best each and every day. And yet, there’s still that perpetual mom guilt—that we did not do enough, that we did things incorrectly, that we don’t compare to other moms. You probably know you’re being unfair to yourself when you have these feelings, but that doesn’t make them [...]
Because only another mom knows what motherhood is really like.
For many families, the deeper we get into this pandemic, the harder it gets. We like to talk about our “new normal,” but the idea that any of this is close to “normal” can also feel like some kind of cruel joke. Parents are still working and taking care of multiple children (some of whom have extra needs) and they’re depleted—mentally, emotionally and financially depleted. One such mom wrote in to us to ask for help:
It's one of those secrets many women don't like talking about but that I suspect most of us feel at some point. Motherhood can be spectacularly boring.